Letter on violence against women and children

Dear Editor,

A lot has been happening this year since this government came into power to address violence against women and children, in parliament and in the administration and in the community. We have seen the growth of various pressure groups in the country to support the cause of the abused in this country. Bills have been submitted to parliament to address the abuse against children and the violence that we see in our streets. The new hotline for children introduced by this government is a huge step forwards as the dynamics of being in small tight communities that we live militate against the protection and trust of those who seek support.

Where things are not moving is the judiciary and therein lies the heart of the problem. Perhaps the judges lack education and appropriate training. Perhaps they are indifferent to the plight of our women and children who come to them seeking justice. Perhaps the judgements they have been making against our children and women in courts are grounded in their personal belief systems.

What we know is that the current systems in place for women to seek divorce and for women and children to seek protection from domestic violence and to seek justice for the trauma of violation and violence is inadequate and needs attention urgently.

We walk on egg shells around this topic just as we do in our abusive relationships. I believe it’s time now to start a national debate on this matter. Look with truth and courage at the structures, systems, customs, beliefs and practices that dishonour women and our children in our society.

We need to qualify and quantify the spiritual, financial, emotional and social cost to those who have suffered violence and been violated in our families and in our communities. We need to set up witness protection systems, safety nets, safe houses and ensure investigations into these matters are conducted with integrity and a high degree of safety. As we need legislature that protects women and children from domestic violence.

I believe we have come to a critical stage in our new democracy where we are not just being challenged by the forces that oppressed us for thirty long years but also by forces that seek to oppress our women and children and impose on us cultural norms alien to our society in the name of Islam.

We must raise our voices collectively and close ranks against these forces if we are to assure our daughters of a future which honours women and children in the modern Islamic state that we aspire the Maldives to be.

Regards,

Shafeea

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Letters on drug rehabilitation

Dear Editors,

I wish to point out some serious factual errors in the article “The Paateys: Heroin Addiction in the Maldives” dated January 13, 2005

“After your first few uses of Brown Sugar, the body will builds up a tolerance to the drug, which means you need to take more and more to get the same high you did on your first go” = not everybody necessarily develops a tolerance.

“If you voluntarily go to the Narcotics Control Board and report that you have a problem you won’t go to jail, but you’ll be put under house arrest until a place is available at the Maldives’ only rehab clinic and there you will be held for up to a year.” = volunteer cases are handled with top priority and they are sent almost on the same day as they come in. Usually the delay is on the volunteer’s part or the family’s wish, for the volunteer to spend a day or two getting ready for the trip.

And in the case that there is no space for a volunteer in the rehab center, which I haven’t come across, quiet honestly, I don’t see the reason why that person should be put under house arrest and hopefully you are aware of the fact that NNCB (previously NCB) has no such authority to put people under house arrest!

The other factor is that, people rarely stay in the rehab for a year. They are usually out in 6 months or so. The length depends on the progress of the client.

“The only rehabilitation centre in the Maldives has been described as more of a jail than a rehab centre.” = I wonder whether you actually talked to people who have been to both the Jail and the Rehab? Only such a person could tell you the differences.

“Drugs councillors are usually recruited between the ages of 17-20 and many are school drop-outs. They are approached by the Narcotics Control Board, who, after sending them on a counselling crash-course for 6 months, will let them loose on the patients. I don’t see how you can properly train a drug-addiction councillor in six months, especially if they are dealing with serious cases of addiction” said the drugs councillor.

= When recruiting counsellor’s for NCB, the position is advertised in the newspapers. It is clearly stated that they should have had at least C grade passes in at least 2 O/level subjects, and a pass in Dhivehi and Islam (minimum D). Is that what you call school drop outs?

I was one of the first five counsellors recruited to be trained as a drug counsellor and I had 4 A/level passes at that time. I dare you to name one person who is currently employed by NNCB and who is a counsellor. Of course I don’t mean for you to include a couple of counsellors who, finished their Rehab term and because of their good behaviour and commitment to the on going treatment and their interest in the field of counselling were given chances, Yes these kids were school dropouts, they were also “drug addicts”, but NCB takes the initiatives to give these kids a second chance to be productive citizens. It would be nice for you to appreciate that too.

And yeah the “crash course” yeah, initially they do undergo, a 6 month course but you forgot to mention the training follow-ups. they are sent to the nearby regions for further training courses, namely to Malaysia, Singapore, India and Sri Lanka and New York.

Training to become a counsellor takes a lot of time and studies. perhaps you are mistaking the trainee counsellors for the counsellors? NCB only gives the job of a counsellor for degree holders. I only got that job title after I finished my first degree. The other relevant designations are , counsellor trainee, assistant counsellor gr1, gr2, and counsellor gr1, and gr2. So next time, please don’t choose to “diss” on the people who are
trying hard to get something done!

The care available to those who are able to get a place at the rehab centre is also far from sophisticated. The ‘treatment’ is to go ‘cold turkey’, which essentially means locking a patient in a room without access to any drugs and where the patient is unable to commit suicide. = Clients are never locked up. True, when we didn’t have a detoxification center (which you have not mentioned in your article), clients were only given mild pain killers and other relevant medication.

I am just wondering whether you are even aware of the existence of a Detoxification center? Are you aware that NCB has had its own psychiatrist (not counting the frequent visits from Dr. Eswaran – the IGMH psychiatrist). NCB also has its own clinical psychologist. There are four counsellors with bachelors degrees (two currently studying for masters degrees), two assistant counsellors with diplomas, two trained from the famous Daytop in New York and others trained from Pengasih/Malaysia and four from Pertapis /Singapore. A lot of them had undergone training in TTK hospital in India, and from NIMHANS/ Bangalore, India and the rest from countless little training programs.

It is always disheartening for me to see, us the people who work in the field, constantly blamed for everything under the sun.

You have mentioned a lot of good stuff in your article such as the social problems. But a good article gets bad because of factual errors in it.

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Four resort workers suspended for stealing alcohol

Four Maldivian staff at Seenu atoll Villigili resort has said they have been suspended for allegedly stealing bottles of alcohol and beer from a restaurant mini-bar using a tourist’s card, according to Haveeru.

One of the suspended workers said the four, two working at housekeeping and two buggy drivers, were informed that they were suspended indefinitely.

The suspended employee denied that they stole the alcohol. “We didn’t even go to the mini-bar on the night they say it happened,” he said.

He added the accusation has ruined their reputation.

Ahmed Shaaneez, communication manager at the resort, said no employees have been suspended for the alleged offence, but measures had been taken against employees for not turning up for work.

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Maldives marks Peace Day

The Maldives celebrated the International Day of Peace on Monday with a number of activities throughout the day, Miadhu reports.

The day kicked off with a football match between veteran football players from the sixties and seventies.

The match was organised by the Male’ Veterans Club, the youth ministry and the Maldives Volunteer Corps.

Countries around the world are asked to hold football matches to mark the day, symbolising their common goal of peace.

Every year at the UN Headquarters in Switzerland, “Peace Bell”, cast from coins donated by children all over the world, is rung.

The bell was gifted by the Japanese government and is a “reminder of the human cost of war”.

The inscription on the bell reads: “Long live absolute world peace.”

Peace Day was first celebrated in 1981.

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Police arrest 17 gang members

Police have now arrested a total of 17 people in connection with the gang violence over the past week in Addu atoll Hithadhoo, Miadhu reports.

Out of the 17 arrested, 12 were arrested for direct involvement in fights while four were arrested for obstructing police and one for illegally entering Hithadhoo police station.

According to police, many of those arrested have cases pending against them at the prosecutor general’s office.

Following two episodes of gang violence last Thursday, Mohamed Maumoon, 19, was seriously injured and flown to Indira Gandhi Memorial Hospital in the capital Male’.

He remains unconscious.

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DQP office ransacked

The Dhivehi Gaumee Party’s office was ransacked yesterday, according to Miadhu.

The party’s secretary-general, Abdulla Ameen, said that while the office had been broken into, it was unclear whether anything had been stolen.

Ameen said the doors and windows of the office were damaged and the perpetrators had rifled through various documents.

He added one of the party’s offices had been broken into in a similar manner during the parliamentary election campaign.

Police are investigating the case.

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Medhufushi Island Resort

Medhufushi is a newly reconstructed five-star resort, back in action since January 2007 and rebuilt after the tsunami with a near-identical design as when it first opened in December 2000. Situated on a long, thin island full of mature greenery, it is one of only two resorts currently in Meem Atoll. You walk in from the jetty over the lagoon and into the lounge by the bar and restaurant. The area sets the tone for the resort – beautifully constructed sturdy wooden buildings with high palm thatch roofs, grand chandeliers and a natural finish.

The resort’s staff, numbering around 150, are friendly and diligent without intruding and the island offers unadulterated relaxation. It is not for partygoers and works instead to offer a totally relaxing environment, to pamper guests and allow visitors to indulge in the laid back pleasures of the sun and the sea.
The Vilu bar and Al Fresco restaurant are both situated above the lagoon jutting out from the island.

The restaurant offers an alternative a-la-carte menu, separate from the buffet, which charges between $50 and $60 for exquisite and filling three course meals.

Move onto the island and you will see the freshwater infinity pool, a few yards in front of the grand Malaafaiy restaurant, both overlooking the lagoon. It offers buffet style breakfast lunch and dinner, with a massive variety of finely prepared foods ranging from sushi, to salad, to steak.

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A symbol of hope

After hearing numerous criticisms over the past few months about Dhuvaafaru, I went to the inauguration ceremony on Monday, pen in hand, prepared to bombard the pages of my pad with corrosive words about what a disaster the project had been.

As the seaplane circled above the island, the rows of utilitarian houses did nothing to dispel my scepticism, so far away were they from my vision of a home.

How wrong I was.

The inauguration of Dhuvaafaru was unexpectedly touching and my cynicism soon gave way to an enduring optimism. From the play that re-enacted their tsunami experience to the banquet islanders had prepared, the spirit of warmth and gratitude that filled the air was one of real sincerity.

Wearing an International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies (IFRC) hat, islanders bounded up to me to shake my hand and thank me for their new home. Having played no part in the reconstruction efforts of the IFRC I felt like a fraud…a proud fraud.

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Riding the waves

While one surfer rides a wave with apparent ease, another does an elaborate 360 degree turn on his body board. This is enough to draw a throng of onlookers to the Surf Point in Male’. Many of the young men who circle the capital on their motorbikes before break fast are brought to a halt by the mesmerising waves and those riding them.

With Ramadan drawing to a close, Wataniya and the Maldives Surf Association have teamed up to host four-day surfing competition, Wataniya Virasee. “We wanted to hold an entertaining event for Ramadan and have fun with the public,” said Maryath Mohamed, public relations officer at Wataniya.

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